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How to Create Magic for ABD Brains + A Year End Dissertation Reflection | Issue 321

Summary: Let the magic of this season’s rest, joy, and celebration restore the well-being your dissertation journey requires with four proven practices. Plus some important year end reflection questions

Read time: 4 minutes that will give your dissertation the gift it truly needs: a restored you.

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By Gayle Scroggs, PhD, PCC

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The holiday season has a way of stirring both joy and unease: the warmth of celebration on one side, the steady pull of your dissertation on the other.

 

That tension isn’t a sign that you’re behind or lacking discipline. It’s a natural response to a month that asks much of your attention and even more of your energy.

What often surprises doctoral writers is that caring for yourself now is not a detour from progress but a foundation for it. Rest isn’t the opposite of discipline; it’s the source of it. A well-timed pause restores clarity, steadies motivation, and strengthens your ability to persevere when January’s work begins again.

Why Seasonal Joy Helps You Make Real Progress

 

Positive psychology offers a reassuring truth: the uplift that comes from joy, connection, and meaningful rest actually supports scholarly productivity. Positive emotions broaden your perspective. Real downtime restores your ability to reason deeply. Human connection repairs motivation that has worn thin. And the right kind of break protects you from burnout—the dissertation’s quietest and most persistent threat.

 

Taken together, these benefits create the internal conditions your dissertation truly requires: steadier focus, more creativity, and the capacity to sustain the long arc of the work. Even small moments of celebration strengthen the mind that does the writing.

 

Four Holiday Practices That Support Both Joy and Scholarship

  1. Separate work and celebration--and honor both.
    When you work, let yourself work. When you rest, let yourself rest. Treat each with respect, and give your full presence to the moment you’re in. As you practice this shift, you may find your work more focused and your celebrations more restorative. Over time, a quiet confidence grows.  You can move between effort and renewal without guilt chasing at your heels.

     

  2. Craft a December plan that treats you with honesty and kindness.
    A sustainable plan begins with a clear picture of the month: its obligations, its emotional weight, and the moments of connection you genuinely value. Note your fixed commitments (teaching duties, advisor meetings, travel, rituals that matter) rest you truly need. Then place a few focused work sessions into the remaining spaces, with clear start times and generous breathing room. This approach sustains momentum while honoring your humanity. Here’s a simple structure to guide you:
    – Anchor the month with commitments that cannot move.
    – Identify when you can genuinely work—not when you wish you could.
    – Protect restorative time with the same intention you give your writing.

     

  3. When worries arise, gently pivot toward something positive. 
    December stirs a full range of emotions—hope, nostalgia, excitement, loneliness. When worry begins to take hold, the key isn’t to wrestle with it but to interrupt it. A breath of cold air, a favorite piece of music, a cup of tea, or even a single quiet minute can stop the spiral long enough for your nervous system to settle. Practiced over time, these small pivots prevent worry from consuming your energy.

     

  4. Savor the good—before, during, and after.
    Savoring is one of the season’s gentlest and most nourishing tools. Pause with the warmth of a conversation, the hush of snowfall, or the glow of candlelight. Let the moment land in your body a few seconds longer than usual. These small acts deepen your well-being and build reserves that support the sustained effort your dissertation requires.

Your Holiday Homework

 

Choose one or more of these to recharge your mind and spirit.

• Watch a holiday film without multitasking.

• Take a walk with someone who lightens your spirit.

• Light a candle and sit with a moment of quiet.

• Create a simple seasonal ritual that feels grounding.

• Write a brief note acknowledging how far you’ve come this year.

• Play or rest in a way your mind has been quietly craving.

 

These small practices refill the well you’ve been drawing from all semester, strengthening the inner resources your dissertation depends on.

 

The Bottom Line

 

Finishing a dissertation is not only about persistence; it is about sustainability. Let this season offer what it naturally does best: renewal. Allow rest, joy, and connection to settle into you without apology. You will enter the new year clearer, steadier, and far better prepared for the meaningful work ahead. Your dissertation needs your effort—but it also needs your well-being.

 

P.S. If you’re ready for steadier progress and stronger support, consider giving yourself the gift of coaching. A small step now can make the months ahead far more manageable.

 

Recommended Resources:

Greater Good Science Center “Why Your Brain Needs Idle Time.”
A clear, science-backed explanation of why stepping away from work increases creativity, emotional balance, and cognitive flexibility. Your brain requires periods of rest to solve complex problems.

Pico Iyer — “The Art of Stillness” (TED Talk).
A thoughtful, elegant reflection on the value of slowing down in a frenetic world. Iyer explores how stillness sharpens awareness, strengthens presence, and restores the mind’s capacity to think deeply — exactly what dissertation writers need. 

Reflection Questions

Year-End Dissertation Reflection

Cultivating Insight with Honesty and Self-Compassion

“The only journey is the one within.”— Rainer Maria Rilke

 

As the year draws to a close, take this opportunity to gently reflect on your path as a doctoral writer and researcher. This set of prompts invites you to honor your perseverance, acknowledge growth, and approach your dissertation journey with perspective and kindness.

Reflection Prompts

 

  1. Looking back on this year, what are you most proud of in how you stayed engaged with your dissertation, even imperfectly?

  2. What did you learn about your best work style? Consider your energy, timing, environment, support, and helpful structures. How have these shaped your approach as a doctoral writer or researcher?

  3. What obstacles or constraints shaped your dissertation progress? Name the realities you encountered and reflect on how you adapted to them—without self blame.

  4. In what ways did you grow—intellectually, professionally, or personally—through the dissertation process this year?

  5. What progress might you be tempted to dismiss or overlook? Celebrate revisions, new clarity, confidence, and resilience as meaningful steps.

  6. When motivation dipped, what helped you regain momentum? Focus on strategies or information that proved useful, rather than viewing motivation as a moral verdict.

  7. Which supports, strategies, or habits truly helped your dissertation work this year? Which ones weren’t helpful?

  8. How did you balance life and dissertation work? Reflect on the trade-oƯs you made, and what those choices protected or prioritized.

  9. Looking ahead, what feels like the most realistic and meaningful focus for the next phase? Rather than aiming for the whole dissertation, identify the next step that matters most.

Allow yourself to celebrate progress in all its forms. This gentle reflection is a gift you give yourself—to honor your eƯorts and set intentions for the journey ahead.

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